Sunday, October 12, 2008
You love your mate!!! But can't stand his/her Momma or Kids!!
You and your mate have been kicking it strong. Everything is on and popping... Lovely to say the least. And then you meet his/her Mom and can't stand her. Keep in mind your mate is very close to their Moms and they make it known to you that they are a package deal. She's always around and when she isn't around she is calling or they are calling her. What your lover doesn't know is that Moms is always making references to the EX, going on and on about how much she preferred the EX and how if she had to make the choice, she would have chose them for her son or daughter. Or other back handed, rude comments that truly get under your skin. But in front of your lover she is the picture of perfection and apple pie. . What do you do?? Do you wait around and hope and pray your time together is limited (knowing good and well it won't be). Do you approach Mom dukes and let her know as respectfully as possible that you are truly not the one. Or do you risk the relationship and tell your lover that his/her Moms gets on a nerve that hasn't been created yet.... Keep it real, this is kinda touchy........
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Let me start this one off. I didn't address the issue of kids in the body of the question either, my bad. I have only been in this situation once in my life and it was horribly uncomfortable. The dudes Mom didn't like me because I called her on her b.s. Not to get too detailed but he was a budding NFL player and was on the brink of making some real money. His daddy raised him until she realized that he may have a future in football. Needless to say she, he was her golden ticket. And he was in need of that Momma love that he missed so much growing up. Game recognize game.... so Mom was not pleased with me at all. When he asked my opinion about giving his Mom 3,000 bucks for a get rich quick scheme and I told him it was crazy to spend that kind of cash at that time (this was pre-contract), she figured she would get me out the picture as soon as possible. And it worked. She was nasty as hell to me at any given opportunity and she put him dead set in the middle. I was young then. I didn't know what to do. I had never been in a situation where I was not liked by a parent. If it happened at this stage, I would have to demand some respect from Moms and be honest with my mate. Honesty is the best policy or somebody is going to end up unhappy and hurt.
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