Sunday, October 5, 2008

Bi-Bi Birdie...... If your current lover had a bi-sexual past, would you continue seeing them??

So, you are in the relationship of a lifetime. Your partner is all you want and need them to be. They are loving, caring, trustworthy, a beautiful person inside and out. You have shared your past experiences with this person and vice versa. This is your best friend and you are ready to take this relationship to the next level. You are in LOVE, and it feels sooo good. Almost too good to be true, right?? And you you find out from a outside source that your Prince or Princess Charming had a bisexual experience in their past. Now keep in mind you found out this information from an outside source, not your loved one, but you know the information is true. What do you do? Are their past experiences any of your business?? Do you leave this wonderful person/relationship immediately? Or do you consider it to be Pre-YOU, anything previous to your relationship is irrelevant?? In a nutshell, do you overlook the past and carry on with the future, or does the past dictate the future?? Chime in folks..... think outside the box. If it were you, what would you do?? Keep it real.........

2 comments:

Divine said...

I would leave my spouse/mate if they informed me that they where bi sexual in there past. It would make me feel that I really didn’t know them. I am the type that does not like to share my mate. I know what I want in a person/relationship so honest is very important and the past pass will interfere with my future.

Kel's After Dark said...

I would have to say I am headed for the door. For two reasons... if you are checking for a dude. You can never check for me. In my opinion it will always be something you want or need in your life. Just human nature. Secondly.... you had the opportunity to tell me and you chose not too. Which leads me to believe that there are many skeletons in your closet and I have to wait around for you to expose them to me. Don't get it twisted we all have a sense of privacy in relation to our sexual past, however if I am trying to move forward with you something that important should be brought up to say the least.