Saturday, September 6, 2008

How important is sex in your relationship?

So the question of the day is........."What if you found the perfect mate and the sex was whack, I mean beyond repair and coaching. How important is physical intimacy for you? The question of the day. Can you have a successful relationship if the sex is bad or would you want too? Share your thoughts and keep it real........

6 comments:

Kel's After Dark said...

I'm going to start this one off. Just keeping it real sexual intimacy is VERY important to me. All of the other elements of a great mate are equally important as well. But that is one of the ways I express myself to my mate and if the sex is not good, I would be doing myself a huge dis-service by denying myself such a natural and pleasurable act. Some may call me shallow but I am keeping it real. I am a loving, sharing physical being and I need to feel that connection to my mate. Otherwise, i will always be looking for the door. What do you think?

ky said...

Sex can be a beautiiful thing, it is also a form of communication, if I can't communicate w/you on that level than I dont think I would be completely satisfied, sometimes I can go without sex, but when I want it, it needs to be good!!!!!

Kel's After Dark said...

Touche', Word-up, I'm hip!

Divine said...

Sex is very important in a relationship. There is nothing better than looking into your lover eyes as sweat is running down your face and at that moment you both climax at the same time needing no words spoken but saying alot. Peace

dana mo said...

GOOD SEX IS VERY VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT TO ME!!! In a relationship, I want it all because I give all. Not only that but I want a relationship in which I can be equally satisfied mentally, emotionally, and physically. I have learned that when I am in a relationship that does not satify all of my needs, I am not happy, faithful or even in the relationship long. So long story short... no sex or bad sex is not wanted here.

myths said...

This is a good question it makes you honestly identify what is more important to you, physical love or emotional love.Contrary to the popular opinion.I believe that a good relationship can be maintained with good ,bad,poor,and even NO sex if it is built on the right foundation.TO me sex is an expression of love,but certanly not our only means of expression.If to much importance is placed on just that aspect thats when problems can start to develope.
It is an amazing and very stisfying act.But not the most important to me.