I will never marry you! But am I wrong for not telling you that??

Have you ever enjoyed someone's company, had wonderful sex, loved to kick it with them..... But you knew that you would never settle down with them? For whatever reason, you enjoy the person you are with but you know that isn't "wifey"? Or for that matter, you love being his boo and wearing his jersey around the crib but he is not "husband material". The question of the day is "Should you be honest about your intentions or lack thereof and risk hurt feelings and potentially getting dumped"? Or should you just enjoy the ride and avoid the subject of the future and marriage whenever it comes up?? Are we responsible for what our spouses expect? If you know that person is not the one, is it fair for you to continue the relationship knowing they expect more? Chime in Guys, let us know what you think.......... And keep it real !!!

How Close Should Your Best Friend and Your Lover Actually Be?

Your best friend in the entire world. Someone you would give your last dollar to, trust with your inner most secrets, and go to battle for if they needed you! But, how secure are you?? What are the fine lines between being friendly and flirty?? How well do you want them to actually get along with your mate. So the question of the day " If your best friend and your mate started to develop their own friendship, how would you react to it and why"? Would you take the stance of "I am soooo glad the two most important people in my life are getting along"! Or would it be more like "What the f*#k is going on in this mamma-jamma"! Keep it real and think about the question..... If conversations were being had without you around and maybe even plans to get together. How secure are you with your friendship/relationship, or is it even a matter of security? It may just be a matter of some fine lines and respect. Or point blank you may not trust the two of them together. Key in and let us know what's on your mind. And remember..... Keep it Real!

What would you do if your partner was caught cheating? Would you keep it moving or try to fix what has been broken?

Sooooo, you got caught with your hand in the cookie jar?? Or your partners weird ways have been exposed.... Either way you slice it, it all boils down to three little words"YOU ARE BUSTED"!!!! Now what would you do? Is that one of many things that are unforgivable or do you offer the offending party a pardon? Is it a scenario of "Once a cheat, always a cheat", or would you take the approach of "Everyone deserves a second chance"? So to break it all the way down, the question of the day is " If your partner was caught cheating, would you pack your bags and head for the door or would you stick around and work things out"? And remember, keep it real! It's easy to say what you will do when it's not happening to you. Let's open this hot topic up for discussion.

How important is sex in your relationship?

So the question of the day is........."What if you found the perfect mate and the sex was whack, I mean beyond repair and coaching. How important is physical intimacy for you? The question of the day. Can you have a successful relationship if the sex is bad or would you want too? Share your thoughts and keep it real........

What's More Important To Be Loved or Freedom?

Hey Guys,

This was my most recent poll and you all have responded to this question in various ways. All responses are your opinions, no judgement here or bashing, just a place to freely express yourself. I love you all for your participation. And remember "I paint myself the best, because I know my own colors". Love, peace and blessings....... Chime in guys, this is our site!

Here are some of the responses I have already received, do add comments. Tell me what you think.....

"I would rather be loved because real love, u are free."



" FREEEEE as a bird!!!! I'd rather my partner be "passionate" not compassionate" AND I want my lover to be totally capable of living without me....."


"Loved, it's the most natural emotion to want need and desire. Not only to want but to give also"


" Love, what's love got to do with it??? I want to be FREE Man. Free to decide if and when I love you. Free to do my thang. And free to tell you to kick rocks if necessary. And if you love me, you will understand. Word UP :) "